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Monthly Archives: May 2011

Instagram + Tumblr = happy dad

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I am loving the combo of mine and Lindsay’s instagram and our tumblr. It’s basically just a chronological iphone documentary of Clive and a little bit of the dogs :)

If you’ve never checked out our tumblr, here’s a quick recap over the last month, or so…

happy saturday morning :)


parkbuddies


crawlspace


thirsty?


naptime


mouthopentime


remi the gentle giant :)


toobright


churchdisruptor


dietstartsmonday

It’s crazy how easy technology has made it for us to document our kid’s life. I love it.

Bobby

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Chrissy D - AHHH! So cute!!!! Isn't it amazing how much joy little ones bring? I LOVE that shower picture!!!!May 31, 2011 - 7:11 am

It only takes one time…

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Clive turned 8 months old yesterday :) He started crawling this last week. His first top tooth is almost broken in. And he said his first word on Thursday. It was a big week for the little man :)

He was looking at himself in the mirror, I said “Clive, can you say ‘daddy’?“, and he flung his head around to look at me. I asked him again — fully thinking it was a pointless questions — and he looked at me, focused real hard, sort of took a moment, and slowly said “dadda…” Lindsay and I were both there and it was flat out amazing.

And since I’ve been told so many times that “it only takes one time” for one of my big dogs to eat Clive…

… apparently Clive and Remmy didn’t get the memo :P

Bobby

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Gilda Adler - it's probably gonna be the other way around...I can see you say "lindsay, clive just bit the dog"...oh well, it happened in our house...:)January 1, 1970 - 12:00 am

Alex Kruk - Exactely Gilda! Love seeing Clive's pictures with your dogs!January 1, 1970 - 12:00 am

Ted - Your dogs are cool.May 30, 2011 - 12:24 pm

Talia - Your stories are awesome and make a little less scared at the thought of having kids. Plus Clive is pretty freakin' cute.May 30, 2011 - 12:36 pm

Bella - bobby my daughter is one, and we decided to adopt another big dog - everyone thinkgs were crazy but they both get along so well with her - i would trust them with her more than i would ever trust a nanny :P and it's SO true! we have a lab-cross and just got a full lab. both the sweetest dogs ever! LOVE dogs!May 30, 2011 - 9:13 pm

Astami - clive is so darn cute but next to remi is just even cuter!! he looks so protective... too sweet!May 31, 2011 - 8:36 am

Emil - Love the second shot bro!! We have a german shepherd and my wife is pregnant with twins. Hopefully we will get some great shots like this.June 2, 2011 - 4:12 pm

A Deadbeat Conundrum

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Lindsay and I are both extremely fortunate in being able to be stay at home parents. Technically, I’m not a stay at home parent, but Lindsay is and I’m home an awful lot. Aside from the 2010 RPTE to Thailand/Cambodia, driving out to Nashville and back, Not For Sale’s Montara Circle in San Francisco, and Astami and Chan’s Bali wedding in April, I think I’ve been home everyday with my son. And Lindsay has been with him everyday I have plus the days I was gone. We are so thankful for this.

Last night, I left to go get dinner. Just being gone for 30 minutes, I missed Clive. Like more than just a little bit. It made me think of dads that just up and leave. I don’t ponder this out of judgment (not at all implying that dads who abandon their children are above judgment), but out of genuine curiosity. How in the world do these men do it? How?! How do you choose to be away from your child? How do you just go on living as if you never had a child? As I was driving home, I was genuinely perplexed how this could ever happen. I’m away for 30 minutes and I already can’t wait for the next time I walk around the corner, say something, and just the sound of my voice immediately induces a smile and whiplash-like head turn to see where I am. I have no idea how a man could go on making a new life, missing out on his child’s life, and not be haunted with constant curiosity of what his child is doing right then. I don’t get it.

And then I think of children who get abandoned like that. If I were able to talk to someone who’s dad left them, I would tell them that I now know from experience that it wasn’t them. It was their dad. The problem was with him. It’s such an incredibly unnatural instinct to just leave your child and never look back. Anyone who could do this just isn’t right in the head, the heart, or the soul (or, rather likely, all three).

My brother got Clive a vampire plug. This might be one of my favorite photos of him ever.

Bobby

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Katie Lewis - Cutest frickin' kid!!!May 26, 2011 - 12:06 am

Jeri - You are a good man, Bobby Earle. My father left my brother and I when we were 2 and 1, respectively. He remarried and had another daughter, whom he raised. My brother and I have only seen him a handful of times throughout our lives, with only 2 of those times being during our childhood and school years. We are perplexed at his actions and really missed out on getting to know our half-sister. We are both in our 40s now, but never let the fact that he was not with us hinder our lives. We had a strong extended family structure, so we never felt like we missed out on anything. Kids need to know they can flourish and grow despite a deadbeat parent. ;) p.s. How cute is Clive with that paci!!May 26, 2011 - 5:30 am

Charlene Kuyrkendall - Sometimes, the fathers don't have a choice, especially if the birth mothers deny the fathers the opportunity to be a part of their child's life . . . Every situation is always different . . . some people could not afford lawyers to fight for a chance to be a part of their kids' lives. Sometimes there are even fathers who are physically present, but emotionally absent . . . bottom line, it's never the kid's fault, and sometimes it's just circumstances beyond fathers' control. who knows why?May 26, 2011 - 11:00 am

Bobby Earle - Charlene, you aren't describing deadbeat dads who choose to never see their kids again. You are describing some of the most victimized people in the world -- dad's who get screwed because the judicial system nearly always sides with the mom. I feel terribly for those men. I'm only referring to the dad's who choose to leave ;)May 26, 2011 - 8:50 pm

Rob Bartlett - Bobby ~ thanks for the great post. I am the father of a 2 1/2 year old boy (Charlie), and a 2 month old daughter (Claire) - who was born two months early [today was her due date]. Looking back it was crazy: I spent a day or two catching up on your old blog posts about Lindsay's pregnancy & Clive's birth ~ then a week or less later I was in the hospital holding a 31 week 3-1/2 lb preemie. I can not even fathom leaving either of my kids. Being gone more than a day or two is really hard (I miss them even more if they're in bed before I get home some nights). Shortly after Claire was born (still in the NICU at the time), I lost my job ~ but thankfully got another right away. One thing that I struggled with most was my new (45+ minute, one-way) daily commute. I felt that I'd lose so much time with my kids that it just tore me up! Thanks to lots of prayer, and some prescription medication - I'm pretty well settled into my new job & routine... and in the end I think I may actually get to see my kids a touch more each day!May 27, 2011 - 1:31 pm

Charlene Kuyrkendall - :) and as a mother to my two little darling girls, I too can't even fathom why anyone would choose to leave their kids. My husband managed to find a way to have time with them via videophone every day while in San Diego on internship the past four months while we all were over here in Arkansas. He said it was the most torturous thing, and he wondered how a lot of people managed without videophone in the old days!!!May 30, 2011 - 9:12 pm

Canoscan 9000f review + our wedding photos!

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So I have been sitting on our wedding photo negatives for 8 and a half years. We got a box stolen out of our car about 7 years ago that we thought had our negatives in them — but a few months back, we found the negatives in our shed! So that led me to buying the Canon CanoScan 9000F. When I tweeted about buying it, I got a few of you asking for a review once I finished. So here it is.

So far, it’s what I wanted. Admittedly, $175 after tax and shipping from Amazon didn’t leave me with the highest expectations. I figured it would probably suck — and I’d just sell it on Craigslist. But now after scanning about 500 images worth of negatives and slides, I can say it’s just what I wanted.

I’m assuming I could get better quality by sending my negs in — but this machine scans my film to about 30MP’s, I believe. There are four size options — and the smaller you scan, the faster it goes. The highest quality (which I did) took about 10-12 minutes for 8 images. So it definitely takes a while if you have hundreds (or thousands, as I do) of negatives — but it’s not terribly slow given the filesize you get back.

As far as the quality, I’m sure I could get better results from a pro lab — but I would literally be spending thousands to scan everything of mine. This thing gives me my old images in plenty good enough quality for my liking.

If you’ve got any questions on something I didn’t cover, let me know and I’ll answer in the comments :)

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And now to our wedding day! January 4th, 2003. I was 20 and Lindsay was 21. We got married in La Jolla on a cliff over the ocean. We were threatened with bad weather due to the El Nino — but ended up having the warmest January 4th since the mid 1800′s. I believe it was 84 degrees (somewhere around 29 degrees celcius) right on the coast. We also had some awesome clouds for an awesome sunset :)

My good friend, Jimmy Fontaine, who has now gone on to being an awesome, ripping, successful editorial/celeb photography in NYC, shot our wedding. We grew up working at a skate shop together — and he was the only photographer I knew. He didn’t shoot weddings — just did it as a favor — and we got SO much luckier than most people who go that route. To be honest, I assumed the photos were worse than they were all these years because I hadn’t really looked at them. But now, having scanned them and being able to see them all, Jimmy did awesome. Such a great friend…

Now there are more photos of me than Lindsay because Lindsay had a bigger pile of “don’t post those ones” than I did :P


My best friends, Garrett and Phil. I wonder what we would have thought had someone told us that 9 years later Phil would be a doctor, Garrett would be a philosophy professor, and I would be traveling the world as a photographer (I hadn’t ever picked up or cared about a camera at that point of my life).


My dad. We keep getting told more and more lately that Clive looks like him.


I didn’t write my vows until about an hour before our wedding. I have yet to overcome my battle with procrastination…


Another one of my life-long best friends, Miguel Ramirez, comes from an insane classical family. He’s an amazing concert violinist. I wrote music for the both of us to play while Lindsay walked down the aisle so this was our sound check :)

This next one is my favorite picture…


I love how creepy this one looks :)


Maybe not the best photo — but I love this one. That’s my grandma with me and Lindsay is dancing with my grandpa Joe. One of the greatest men I’ve ever known. I miss him dearly. This image just makes me happy.


And off we went :)

Lindsay and I didn’t have enough money for a honeymoon. We didn’t mind because we were just so excited about getting married. But I felt bad not being able to take her somewhere special for our honeymoon like I so badly wanted — so I spent that year saving money without Lindsay knowing and for our first year anniversary we backpacked across Europe for two and a half months. I surprised her on Christmas two days before we left. It was one of the best experiences of our lives and without that trip I wouldn’t have ever become a photographer. All because we didn’t have a honeymoon :)

These photos are such a walk down memory lane. I still can’t believe we got married sooo young! But I’m so happy we did.

Bobby

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Astami - i'd say that photo scanner was worth every penny! lovely... everything looked just lovely!May 25, 2011 - 6:18 am

DSWfoto - Orlando Wedding Photographer - Bobby, Would you say the scans look better than the prints you received or about the same? Reason I ask is I recently purchased the negatives from my wedding. I always though that the processing was subpar and seeing the negatives in a 1 hour moto foto sleeve probably explains why. I'm intending on sending my negatives to Scan Cafe and seeing what they do with them. I'm hoping that the negatives reflect something better than our prints did.May 25, 2011 - 12:06 pm

Bobby Earle - DSW, The prints look better -- but that might be due to the fact that our photographer used a local pro lab that is very good.May 25, 2011 - 4:49 pm

Chrissy D - Love it, love it, love it!!!!!!!!!!! You guys are just so adorable!!!!!!!May 25, 2011 - 7:30 pm

Ashley Dawn - OMG!!! I LOVE THIS POST!!! Your picture dancing with your Grandparents made me well up. I miss my grandpa too, he passed away the year before I got married. And YOUR WIFEY LOOKS SO BEAUTIFUL! Her dress is amazing!! You guys are awesome! Congratz on beings such a great example for married people! :) (That might sound kinda cheesy, but seriously, you two are amazing) :)May 25, 2011 - 8:15 pm

Nicole Dabbs - Ah, Bobby! These photos bring back so many memories of your beautiful wedding day. It was an absolutely perfect wedding and seeing these photos make me get teary all over again!May 26, 2011 - 7:16 am

RPTE Update (and amazing video)

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So I’ve got a new RPTE site up! Check it out and let me know what you think :D

We’re half full for our Thailand/Cambodia trip this December!!! So if you’re wanting to come, make it happen! As I always say, the excuses that are keeping you from coming this year will almost certainly be there next year… and the year after… and the year after that.

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Here’s an amazing clip of the Tonle Sap (one of our day trips out in Cambodia). One of my dearest friends, and an always RPTE attendant favorite, Mister Don, making music with a water bottle. As always with Mr. Don, he ends up being his favorite comedian and cracking himself up. He’s like this every second of the day. It’s incredible :)

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Link for feedreaders/facebookers. Click the HD option!

Bobby

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Katie Lewis - OMG I LOVE THEM SOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!May 24, 2011 - 10:04 am

Amy Martin - sigh!!! I miss them so much... I wanna go! IS clive going?May 27, 2011 - 5:57 pm