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Monthly Archives: January 2011

One little smile…

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So as my last post stated, Clive has been a handful this last week. He’s still a fairly quiet baby — but not much has been making him happy these last few days. Not sure if he’s sick, teething, or a combo of both. However, when this happens…

…it’s as if I’ve gotten 8 hours of sleep the night before.

Lindsay has been having a real problem sleeping as she’s been a little extra paranoid with Clive. Waking up all through the night — or just not sleeping at all. I made her go and stay at my parents’ house last night because if she’s in our house, she just can’t tune out enough to get sleep. Well, this morning, when Clive was officially waking up for the day, Clive was just as happy as could be. Just smiling and laughing back at me from his back for a good 20 minutes. It’s almost silly how incredible it makes you feel, having this little baby look directly at you and respond to your ridiculous attempts at comedy approvingly :)

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Cindy Lowe - so cute! love this shot!!January 27, 2011 - 12:00 am

Linda Morgan - Adorable pix. At this age you are the most important people in the world to him, the funniest too. It is a great time. enjoy!January 27, 2011 - 12:00 am

Katie Lewis - I have something to tell you. I fell in love with Clive. I miss him. Just thought you should know.January 26, 2011 - 10:44 pm

Jasmine* - I die. Augh. I die again.January 27, 2011 - 12:12 pm

Sue Sexton - One little smile...changes​ your world :)January 28, 2011 - 12:00 am

Leslie Lacroix Ross - Im starting to see a little bit of Lindsay in his face in this pic.January 28, 2011 - 12:00 am

Sue Sexton - One little smile...changes your world :)January 28, 2011 - 12:00 am

Julie - Hey Bobby, Adorable!! I just wanted to share this story I read (about infant reflux) in case Clive has some of the same symptoms. I hope he feels better soon! Julie http://kellyraeroberts.blogspot.com/2010/09/colic-solved.htmlJanuary 28, 2011 - 12:22 am

Bobbi - SOOO cute. Man. I want one! ;)February 3, 2011 - 9:39 am

Winn - I think this is my favorite stage of babyhood. :DFebruary 4, 2011 - 7:08 am

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11, 1, 3, 5, 6, 8…

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Weird numbers, right? Well, to be more clear, those numbers represent Clive’s sleeping schedule last night. Went to bed just before 11pm only to wake up at 1am, 3am, 5am, 6am, and then completely get up at 8am. I’m sure many parents have had it worse, but that was a bit brutal for us…

What made it cute was at 8am when Clive officially woke up. He was on his side, looking at his pacifier, and smiling right at it. So cute :)

My friend, Luke, shot this of me trying to get Clive to go to sleep last night :)

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Tim Sarquis - Dude, been there! It's all about paying your dues when it comes to parenthood! It wasn't until about 3 months my son started to sleep from 8pm to 4:30am. It was AMAZING! Keep it up man, you'll get there!January 25, 2011 - 11:24 am

Candace Porter - Um. I'm in love with your door! Hopefully he'll get more consistent soon!January 25, 2011 - 2:10 pm

Katie Trujillo - sooo cute! I've found with my other 3 kids, that when they started waking up every 2 hours again (as they were growing) they were hungry. When I upped their ounces they slept through the night pretty good, maybe waking only once or twice :)Bed at 8, wake at 12, 5, and up at 8Good luck! I remember how constantly waking in the night just drains you during the day. But those baby smiles seem to pull us through it right?January 26, 2011 - 12:00 am

Miquon Branch - Hey Bobby, My unsolicited advice would be the same as Katie's above. Usually hungry...January 26, 2011 - 12:00 am

Buyer’s remorse…

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Here’s the buy…

And here’s the remorse…

Buyer’s remorse from Bobby Earle

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Andrew De Vries - good thing you live in cali and not chicagoJanuary 24, 2011 - 12:00 am

andrea - I keep looking at the buy :) nice wheels! let's not feel remorse on Monday :)January 24, 2011 - 12:14 pm

Bernadette - we just bought a new car too. Our previous one was costing us a fortune to run. In the new one it costs me the same to fill the tank but..it goes twice as far. But in the end filling up always hurts. :(January 24, 2011 - 1:44 pm

Shauna MacDonald - If you were to fill up here in Toronto, 21 gallons would've cost you $90.00 (and our dollar is at par).January 25, 2011 - 12:00 am

Leslie Lacroix Ross - Bummsies. The price ticked faster than the gallons? It looks really good though.January 25, 2011 - 12:00 am

Sue Sexton - Yeah, but it goes faster than a skateboard and you can haul more...hahahaJanuary 25, 2011 - 12:00 am

Amy Martin - It will cost you a plane ticket to Beijing to get to and from Nashville. But it is a sweet ride! I feel your pain in my Yukon XL Cost money to be fancyJanuary 25, 2011 - 8:01 am

Jamie Jal - nice.......January 26, 2011 - 12:00 am

Bella - Husband just got a 3500 RAM diesel 5.9L engine. cost $120.00 to fill up... buyer remorse much? not so much for him.January 25, 2011 - 4:58 pm

Tony Good - I regularly fill up with 15-16 gallons in the UK and it costs me nearly GBP £100 - thats roughly USD $160January 31, 2011 - 4:15 am

Cindy - that's a huge tank.January 31, 2011 - 5:23 pm

A $1300 lesson…

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I’m flying out to Phoenix this morning to buy a new car. We’re taking the whole fam out to Nashville for all of Feb and March (to be with Lindsay’s family :) and need a BIG car that can fit all of us — and a german shepherd and rottie are not easy to fit in a sedan :)

Well, I’m getting my cash together for the car. Like actual cash. I’m one of those weirdos who has never once written a check and likes paying in cash. So I’m boarding a plane with tens of thousands of dollars. Hope that doesn’t make me a suspect for something! Anyways, in getting the cash together, in the counting process $1300 that was certainly there when I counted earlier in the day was missing. It’s still missing. I literally have no idea what happened. But it’s gone.

I was frustrated. Annoyed. Mildly pissed. We’re buying a car. Moving out to Nashville for a couple months. All those arrangements cost money. Losing money in the midst of this is freaking annoying. And then I read this…

Britt Merrick is a friend of many of my friends. His little daughter is going through her second battle at cancer.

After seeing this, I immediately realized something. My problems are actual something to be thankful for. Why? Because they are so trivial. So unimportant in the big picture. Do I want to lose $1300? Nope. Is that a good thing. No way. But if Clive were dealing with his second run at fighting cancer, and the chemo was beating his little body down? I wouldn’t give a damn about losing $1300. In fact, I’d be jealous of the guy who lost far more (money-wise) but had a healthy child not experiencing pain. I’d be dreaming about being in his position

So today I’m not going to focus on how annoyed losing this money made me. Instead, I’m incredibly thankful. To have a safe, healthy family? I should be so lucky for my biggest annoyance right now to be the loss of some green paper.

It’s so incredibly easy to lose sight of how lucky nearly every one of us is.

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Kylie Pacheco - Great post and so true xJanuary 20, 2011 - 12:00 am

Nick Shapiro - bobby for president!January 20, 2011 - 12:00 am

Sue Sexton - Now, that's what I'm talking about...January 20, 2011 - 12:00 am

andrea - "This Too Shall Pass" Did you actually loose it? Is it just misplaced somewhere? Sending you positive thoughts in hopes you find your cash and peace of mind :)January 20, 2011 - 12:34 am

Kristin - THIS is why I follow your blog and facebook! Your pictures are gorgeous but your words are what keep me checking back. Thanks for reminding us how blessed we all are, and brightening my day yet again.January 20, 2011 - 6:21 am

Anonymous - I'm sure the TSA will see this in your carry on and you will have a lot of explaing to do. Arrive early.January 20, 2011 - 12:57 pm

Julianna Koh - Well said. It would bother me a lot to lose that much cash but I'll be reminded now that there are other priorities in life worth my attention.January 20, 2011 - 11:07 pm

Kimberly - I read the same tweet. I prayed. And I cried. Then I was overwhelmed with thankfulness. Thanks for sharing and reminding me.January 22, 2011 - 2:49 pm

Matt - You're so on target here. Going through similar stuff. I work now for a company "related" to Halogen, a program on some TV networks, and I was watching some videos on Invisible Children. Seeing what this kids go through puts so much in perspective, man. Not only that, it makes me want to give more of what I have (which I would usually consider to be below average) to help those who truly have needs. Geez, I don't know Britt but I'll pray for him. Can't even imagine.January 25, 2011 - 1:32 am

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Modern day MLK.

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Yesterday was the late Reverend Martin Luther King’s holiday. As such, Lindsay and I observed the holiday by watching an awe inspiring documentary on one of our nation’s greatest hero’s. I can’t express how badly I wish the great Reverend were still alive to see the difference in our nation — largely due to his efforts that cost him his life. Our nation will forever be in debt to his heroic service.

Upon further reflection, I couldn’t help but bring my mind to a recent event in the news (or, unfortunately, I should more clearly state a recent event mostly left out of the news). A great man, who I consider to be a modern day version of the late Reverend, was killed two weeks ago. On our anniversary, in fact. He was the governor of Punjab in Pakistan. His name was Salmaan Taseer. He was shot 26 times for being a champion for human rights in Pakistan. He dedicated much of his political career to protecting minorities from Muslim groups that continue to kill minorities (mainly Christians) and fighting laws that do the same. The New York Times described him asexceptional, even within the secular-minded Pakistan Peoples Party, for his vocal opposition to the religious parties and the extremism they spread. He was imprisoned in the 1980s under the military dictator Gen. Mohammad Zia ul-Haq for it and was still opposing the religious parties 30 years later.

Most recently, a non-Muslim woman, Asia Bibi, has been sentenced to death for committing blasphemy. Taseer was killed because he spoke out against this death sentence — stating that he believed Bibi was innocent. He knew very well the threat to his safety in doing such things. He did it anyway.

A couple days ago, I was talking with a friend of mine, Reverend Timothy, who is from Nigeria (Jos, to be exact). Reverend Timothy moved to the states recently for a couple years to go to university. He told me how he had to call home on Christmas eve. Muslims were killing Christians in his town that night. His phone call home was to make sure those who were killed weren’t his wife and daughters. Fortunately, they weren’t. Unfortunately, however, 6 of his unarmed, non-violent friends were killed.

Courageous men like Mr. Taseer and Rev. King need to be remembered and honored. It’s the way in which we tell history that such actions are commendable, heroic, and worth the risk involved. Such actions lead to the protection of innocent people. People like my friend, Reverend Timothy.

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Ed Pouso - Dr King directly affected us as photographers. His friend and lawyer was smart enough to common law copyright the mimeographed copies of the "I have a dream" speech before it was handed out to the press. At some point a major music Co started to create records of the speech with out permission. The court case that followed is used to protect many works of art.January 18, 2011 - 1:38 pm